Strong and bitter words indicate a weak cause... one of three fortune i received during the weekend.

Our words, like our deeds, should be filled with faith and hope and charity, the three great Christian imperatives so desperately needed in the world today. With such words, spoken under the influence of the Spirit, tears can be dried, hearts can be healed, lives can be elevated, hope can return, confidence can prevail. (Jeffrey R. Holland, The Tongues of Angels)

Alright, so maybe my words have not exactly been the nicest, but sometimes the world needs to hear the truth.
if one seeks for my opinion, than one is willing to hear a different perspective than what one wants to hear, whether it maybe good or bad.